July 06, 2008

As I Get Older, Some Online "Friending" Gets Creepier

I don't know if my transition from being childless to being a father of two has contributed to my being more aware of my age, but as I get requests to be "friends" on a variety of social networks, fromFacebooktoPlurk,Identi.ca,Twitter和any other social site of the month, I'm finding myself a bit uneasy when it comes to "friending" young contacts.

在偶尔的烦恼之上,从更年轻比我在我同一个网络正在从事10至15岁的青年在任何地方,这里还有一些是有我犹豫每次我从一个14岁或20岁的邀请时谁要按照我的更新或连接。

At my old age of 31, were I to be a "real world" friend of any 20 year old girl, people should be asking questions. If I were palling around with some 14 year-old boy geek, they would be asking other questions. Yet, the occasional eyebrow-raising invite hits my e-mail box, and makes me wonder if somebody just might get the wrong idea.

What if I were to take the next step and move beyond a simple friend acceptance on Facebook or Twitter and try to find out more about this person?

For example, takeMashable's Alana Taylor, age 20, orRead Write Web's Corvida Raven, age 20. I'm friends with both on Facebook, and I've had many conversations with Corvida on Google Talk, traded e-mail, and phone calls.

Alana I've never talked to, butgoing to her personal bloghad me feeling like I was getting a bit too much information.

Similarly, a14-year-old Josh Jenkins要求遵循plurk相关我的更新,我的回报。我有什么共同点乔希?我我怎么解释任何兴趣我会在他的更新,或者从那些18 year old Ivan B,19 year old Eric Kerr19 year old Jared Eberle?

关于它的思考,使我的头有一点点心痛。Alana's Facebook profilesays she graduated from high school in 2006, eleven years after I did, and at a point where I'd been married for three years. Josh Jenkins wasn't even born until my junior year in high school. Assuming teenage dalliances, he could be my kid, for crying out loud.

Maybe I'm overthinking it a bit. I know online "friending" and "following" is growing like gangbusters for people in social networks everywhere across age groups. And I know that to many, maybe my age of 31 seems young. But isn't there something a bit creepy about all this?